If you feel heavy, you are not alone. In the past two weeks, America has been reminded once again, with a severity that is hard to overstate that words have weight. They can heal. They can divide. And sometimes, they can even destroy.The assassination of Charlie Kirk has become more than a headline; it is a tremor running through every conversation across our nation, every thread on social media and every living room where politics is discussed. The reverberations are everywhere: at the White House, where the administrations response has been swift and deeply personal; at memorials and vigils; and in the hearts of those who admired Kirk or disagreed with him. The storm of grief, anger and anxiety will not clear soon.Its easy to see why. For many, Kirk represented more than a movement he was a voice that challenged, provoked, and, at his best, insisted that disagreement is not destruction. His reliance on scripture anchored him in something deeper than daily headlines. When the world felt chaotic, he turned to verses that have steadied millions before him. "The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing." (Proverbs 12:18 NIV) It was a call to debate fiercely, but with respect a challenge to listen like you might be wrong.CHRISTIAN LEADERS HONOR CHARLIE KIRKS PURPOSE AND CONVICTION AFTER FATAL SHOOTINGBut in the wake of his death, opposing sides have drawn their own conclusions some demanding accountability, others fearing retribution. The tragedy has not united us in mourning, but accelerated the splitting of our national seams.If the past two weeks have felt unusually dark, its no wonder. They have reinforced some of the heaviest trends we face as a country.CHARLIE KIRK'S PASTOR GIVES AN UPDATE ON THE FAMILYNone of this is sustainable. You cant celebrate a mans murder on one side and threaten retribution on the other and expect healing. You cant weaponize grief and not expect blowback.Charlie Kirks best moments were not his sharpest retorts, but his willingness to debate openly, even in hostile rooms. He drew on scripture not to divide, but to anchor. We do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the cosmic powers over this present darkness. (Ephesians 6:12) For Kirk, the real battle wasnt against each other, but against the forces that would pull us apart.Scripture is clear: "Do not take revenge, my dear friends It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord. (Romans 12:19 NIV) Grace and forgiveness are not weaknesses they are the only things that can break the cycle of grievance and retribution.Its easy on both sides to mock, to gloat, to double down on anger. Its harder to listen, to debate without dehumanizing, to choose restraint when it feels least deserved.CLICK HERE FOR MORE FOX NEWS OPINIONBut that is the only way forward. "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." (Romans 12:21 NIV) We dont have to mirror each others rage or bitterness. We can guard our spirits, set boundaries with grace, and refuse to let someone elses darkness define our response.If you feel overwhelmed, its understandable. The words swirling around us are heavy, often toxic. But scripture and the best of our civic tradition offers an alternative: be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry. (James 1:1920) Kindness and compassion are not naive; they are necessary.Words dont just describe our world; they shape it. They can set a room on fire, or they can bring a measure of peace. Right now, too many words are deepening the divide and raising the stakes.We all have a choice. We can keep using words as weapons, or we can use them to build bridges, even across the toughest divides. If we choose grace over grievance, forgiveness over vengeance, and truth spoken in love over lies shouted in anger, perhaps words can still save us if only we let them.No matter where you stand, perhaps the real invitation in this moment is to see beyond the headlines and hashtags to recognize the weight our words carry, and choose them with care. In this, we might find not just a way to move forward, but a way to heal.CLICK HERE TO READ MORE FROM LEE HARTLEY CARTER